There are two states of love, one is liking and the other is love.

Like and love, there is a difference, like is presumptuous, and love is restraint.

1.like is to attract each other, love is to feel sorry for each other.

When you like someone, you can’t control your desire to express yourself, and try every way to attract the other person’s attention and let them see you. And when you love someone, you will silently stay by his side, be happy for his joy, and worry about his sorrow.

So, if you just want the other party to notice you, then you just like the other party; if the other party’s every move will affect your heart, then you are in love with the other party.

2. Like is the joy at first sight, and love is long-lasting.

When you see someone and suddenly feel heartbroken and can’t breathe, then you must be in love with the other person. This kind of love, if it doesn’t disappear with the passage of time, after you get to know each other better, you like it more, then this is love.

Like is a momentary feeling, not necessarily long-term, but love is not. When you love someone, no matter how long it is, no matter how many flaws he has, your heart still misses him and wants to be with him.

3.To like is to think in the heart, and to love is to have action.

When you like someone, when you are doing other things, you will suddenly think of him, and you will be very happy to think about it, but this miss will soon pass, and you will start doing other things. And love is an uncontrollable longing, so you have no way not to think about him.

When you think of him, you can no longer do other things seriously, you will not be able to restrain your impulse, contact him quickly, or rush directly in front of him instead of just thinking about it.

4. to like is to possess the present, and to love is to plan for the future.

When you like a person, you will have a very strong possessiveness towards him, and you will want to be in close contact with him and have him completely. And if you love someone, you will want to have it, but you will think about the future, and save the best of each other for later.

Like it is to be with him now, just enjoy the joy of the moment, no matter what it will be in the future. Love is not just wanting to live a good life with him, but also planning the future of the two of them well.